Is there a conversation you've been avoiding?

Jul 25
1 min read

Updated: Aug 21

Ever walked away from a conversation feeling heavy but unsure how to bring it up?

It’s easier to brush it off or tell yourself it’s not a big deal. But emotional maturity is taking responsibility for the way our actions affect others, and being open to hearing how their actions affect us, too.

When we communicate with others, whether they’re friends or colleagues, we have two choices:

We can emotionally distance ourselves and say, “Not my problem.”
Or we can acknowledge that communication is a two-way street, and sometimes, having a conversation is necessary to clear the air.

Hard conversations aren’t easy. Obviously. You may even feel it’s not worth the effort. Maybe you’re scared of being misunderstood, or worried it’ll turn into conflict. But conflict is part of relationships, and that doesn’t have to be a bad thing. Conflict doesn’t always equal anger. Sometimes addressing an issue, despite how uncomfortable it is to do, is one of the most caring things we can do.

You may be frustrated with someone because they said something that annoyed you. Or you could have a difference of opinion that doesn’t make either of you a bad person, you just see things differently.

If you approach it with curiosity, honesty, and care, if you listen without trying to win, addressing the issue can lead to a deeper, more meaningful relationship.